This unconventional
ceremony on Saturday was the first same-sex Buddhist wedding held in
Taiwan, where a landmark bill to legalize same-sex marriage has been
pending since 2003.
No countries in Asia have
legalized same-sex marriages so far, although there have been signs of
progress in some -- most recently in Vietnam and Nepal.
Huang Mei-yu said she and
her partner of seven years, Yu Ya-ting, decided to hold a Buddhist
wedding to acknowledge their own faith, as well the predominant religion
of the nation, according to the Taipei Times newspaper. They hoped the
ceremony, which was performed by a renowned Buddhist master, would
encourage Taiwanese society to accept same-sex marriage.
"Of course it helps
(promote same-sex marriage), said Wu Hsiao-wen, Secretary of the Taiwan
LGBT Family Rights Advocacy, saying that the ceremony set a strong
example for the Buddhist community. She added that its legitimacy was
bolstered in the public's eyes by its blessing from Shih Chao-hwei, a
highly-respected Buddhist social activist, who presided over the
ceremony. Shih founded the Hong-Shih Buddhist College and the Research
Centre for Applied Ethics at Hsuan Chuang University.
The Buddhist ceremony
followed a mass same-sex wedding extravaganza last August, where 80
lesbian couples participated in a "Barbie and Barbie's wedding" in the
capital city of Taipei, attracting over 1,000 guests and curious
onlookers.
Taiwan was the first
nation in Asia to introduce a bill to legalize same-sex marriage and
adoption by same-sex couples. Drafted in 2003 under former president
Chen Shui-bian, it has made little headway in Taiwan's legislature,
however.
Wu said the issue of
same-sex marriage is often given lip service during electoral campaigns,
but there is little effort to push the bill forward once the winning
candidate takes office. At a gay rights awareness event in 2006, when
the current president, Ma Ying-Jeou, was the mayor of Taipei, he said
homosexuality was a "natural phenomenon" and "gay rights are part of
human rights." Since taking office in 2008, he has been mostly silent on
the issue.
The government is also
under pressure from Christian groups -- who comprise a small but vocal
religious minority in Taiwan — Wu said. Given the little political will
at present, she said the pressure to push the bill through needs to come
from the grassroots level.
She is optimistic that
same-sex marriage legislation will be passed in the next few years,
saying the "gay and lesbian community is getting stronger and stronger."
Taipei's annual gay pride parade has become Asia's largest since its inception in 2003, according to organizers, attracting 50,000 people last October. Wu said this year's parade will focus for the first time on same-sex marriage rights.
Elsewhere in the region,
Vietnam held its first gay pride parade on August 5, attended by around
100 people in the capital of Hanoi. It followed inaugural gay pride
parades in Myanmar and Laos in May and June, respectively.
In July, Vietnam's
Justice Ministry announced it would consider including a provision for
same-sex marriage rights in a proposal to the National Assembly next
year, as part of an amendment to the country's marriage laws. While LGBT
activists are unsure how far the government will truly take the matter,
it appears the decision may stem from practicality.
"It's time for us to
look at the reality," Justice Minister Ha Hung Cuong said in an online
debate. "The number of homosexuals has mounted to hundreds of thousands.
It's not a small figure. ... They may own property. We, of course, have
to handle these issues legally."
In May, Nepal's Home
Ministry announced it would include an "others" category to recognize
the alternative gender identities of LGBT people on citizenship
certificates and other official government and business documents.
Nepal's Supreme Court
ruled in favour of granting full rights to LGBT people in 2008,
including the right to marry. But the Nepalese LGBT community is still
waiting for these rights to be written into the country's new permanent
constitution, which has been dogged by repeated delays and protracted
negotiations.
"I remember when I told
my parents that we would get married, their first question was, 'Is this
legal?'" Huang told reporters at her wedding. "I could only say to them
that it would (become legal) soon, but I didn't know when would be
considered soon. So we hope it will become legal. For us and for our
families, it is very important."
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